There are things we’re meant to feel guilty about; we’re wired that way so that if we’ve wronged someone, we know when to make amends. It’s unhealthy to feel guilty for long, though: take action or stop talking bad about… Continue Reading
Creativity requires the courage to let go of certainties. – Erich Fromm You may be wondering, what does Patti have to say about creativity? Most of my outfits are fairly simple, in a small range of colors. I think… Continue Reading
It’s a phrase often tossed around at “big” birthdays: 40 is the new 30, and 60 is the new 40 – just to make the birthday girl feel good, I think. All those ages can be marvelous in different ways.… Continue Reading
I love strong women, and I am one, and “older”. I’m drawn to women who have confidence, heart, and vibrancy, and aren’t afraid to share it. That’s why I picked this picture from Pinterest (the original site appears to be… Continue Reading
I buy fewer and fewer things as time goes by – a function of having pretty much what I need by age 62, and an intense dislike of shopping, except at thrifts and online. Going away for the weekend to… Continue Reading
Although I’m a retired psychotherapist, I haven’t turned off the inquisitive (nosy) part of my brain. I’m still fascinated by what makes people tick. To me, there’s nothing more interesting than humans, and what goes on upstairs. Outer space looks cool too,… Continue Reading
As always, we had a wonderful week in New York City. I won’t start blathering on again about how much I love it, because repetition. There was a little extra magic this time, though, because we renewed our wedding vows.… Continue Reading
I always feel young, actually ageless, in New York City. Or any other big city. My spirit feels attuned to the constant buzz, change, madness, and random acts of city kindness. I am not built for country life, although I… Continue Reading